16 Days of Action
16 Days of Action takes place from 25 November to 10 December. It’s a time for organisations to raise awareness of domestic abuse. Including the support available to victims.
Domestic abuse isn’t always physical. There are many different types of abuse. Victims can feel controlled, intimidated and isolated from their loved ones and community.
During these 16 days of action, we are sharing four videos which follow Maddie, a beauty Vlogger. Maddie talks about her experience of domestic abuse and speaks to others she has met on her journey.
Each video will be released over the 16 days, so make sure to check back for the next part!
Follow the story
- Facebook: @mywakefield
- TikTok: @wakefieldcouncil
- Instagram: @mywakefield
Who I am
Get ready with Maddie as she shares her survivor story.
We’ve all experienced the rush that comes with a new relationship. But she talks about how her relationship went from 0 to 100. Maddie started to lose sight of who she was even though they seemed like the ‘perfect’ couple on social media.
Are you in a relationship that is controlling or coercive? Or do you know someone who is?
You are not alone. Help is available.
Call WDDAS on 0800 915 1561 or speak to someone you trust.
Read more about coercive control and how to spot the signs on the Refuge website.
What a Dad should be
Children who witness domestic abuse are victims too.
Maddie is filming with Laura, a woman she met at her support group. Laura’s son, Max, has written about his experience of domestic abuse.
Children hear and see many things at home. Sometimes their parents might not know they’ve witnessed it or think they are too young to understand. But domestic abuse can have a lasting impact on children as they grow up.
It’s important to look out for the signs of trauma. And get them help when they need it.
Read about the effects of domestic abuse on children, what to look out for, and what to do if a child tells you about abuse at home by visiting the Barnardo’s page.
You are not alone
Maddie sits down with Lisa and Grace to talk about their experiences. Covering same-sex relationships, financial abuse and alcohol abuse.
Domestic abuse can look different for everyone. Regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation or religion. Everyone who is or has experienced abuse will have a unique experience. Sometimes this is physical but sometimes it isn’t.
Visit Galop’s website, and learn more about how people from the LGBT+ community may experience domestic abuse.
Read more about economic abuse, and how to spot the signs. Plus, find support if you need it.
At the match
Maddie speaks with Callum, her partners best friend. Callum started to worry that he was going to hurt his partner. He spotted the signs early and sought help.
It can be difficult to admit that your behaviour is hurting the people you love. You may not realise that your actions are abusive. The first step to making a change is to ask for help.
Ask yourself the questions and find out what getting help looks like.
What can I do?
Domestic and gender-based abuse is an international crisis. And you are here to take action.
Whether that is to learn more about the issue, or to find support for a loved one. We all have a role to play in putting an end to abuse.
Help us share the message: Whether you are currently a victim of domestic abuse or a survivor, help is available. You do not have to face domestic abuse alone.
But we also need to focus on the cause of abuse. It can be hard to admit that your behaviour is hurting the people closest to you.
Support is available for people who want help to change their behaviour.